Tuesday, August 22, 2006

Still Waters

Marina Grace muses on "why women want complicated:"

If the waters are calm all the time, and nothing stirs the surface, how do you know what’s underneath it? How can you claim to love it?


I answered, perhaps too glibly, "Because you can see through still water."

Let me expand on that and apply it to men as well -- we crave the swirling waters because we imagine something wonderful hidden in the deep. Clear, still water may be beautiful but it cannot promise more than it is.

We're often seeking not a real person with real flaws and finite limitations, but a Rorschach inkblot in which we can imagine our heart's ever-changing desires.

To use another metaphor, great legs descending from a pair of shorts can pass the time waiting for a red light to change, but the now-you-see-it-now-you-don't flash of thigh beneath a slitted skirt has the power to intrigue.

5 Comments:

At 9:10 AM, Anonymous Marina Grace said...

It appears we have a tennis match going :).

http://marinagrace.squarespace.com/journal/2006/8/22/love-is-like-a-shark.html

 
At 5:48 PM, Anonymous skcorefil said...

I disagree that women want complicated.

 
At 11:28 PM, Blogger Jewish Atheist said...

marina:

Touche'.

skcorefil:

True, only some women do. And some men.

 
At 2:01 AM, Anonymous Benjamin said...

As far as what women want, I like Shaw's exceedingly long and indirect answer in Man and Superman.

And it's a hilarious play to boot.

 
At 3:38 AM, Blogger Ibrahimblogs said...

Well that was a great way of explaining it!! How do you like the water - still or swirling??

 

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